{"id":2309,"date":"2017-06-27T11:00:20","date_gmt":"2017-06-27T17:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/alliwalk.com\/blog\/?p=2309"},"modified":"2017-06-30T08:55:32","modified_gmt":"2017-06-30T14:55:32","slug":"act-w-2017-details","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alliwalk.com\/blog\/2017\/06\/act-w-2017-details\/","title":{"rendered":"Event: Advancing The Careers of Technical Women (ACT-W), Details"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Speakers and Notes\u00a0from \u201cAdvancing The Careers of Technical Women (ACT-W)\u201d New York 2017 Conference<\/h2>\n<p>Following up from <a href=\"http:\/\/alliwalk.com\/blog\/2017\/06\/how-a-womans-conference-saved-my-butt\/\">my previous post <\/a>about the very inspiring ACT-W NY conference\u00a0with a write-up of my notes.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, I could not\u00a0attend all of the presentations, but they were all interesting an inspiring. Below are notes from just a few of the speakers I heard.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #003745;\"><strong>Presentation\u00a0One: Advice about promoting yourself, by\u00a0Natasha Awasthi<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Her advice came in two parts, due to being a speaker in two presentations at the conference. I liked what she had to say in the first one, I went to the second.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>It&#8217;s not bragging to talk about your accomplishments.<span style=\"color: #084e61;\"><em> You&#8217;re earning trust:<\/em><\/span><\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>I can completely relate with the idea of feeling like I&#8217;m bragging when talking about past accomplishments. So much so that I might\u00a0<em>avoid<\/em> talking about what I&#8217;ve done in the past, even though it would be very relevant. Now that I can frame my past as a credential to build trust, I will be &#8220;bragging&#8221; about my past accomplishments as much as possible<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t network. Build a community:<\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>As an introverted person, the idea walking up to people and introducing myself for the sake of &#8220;business connections&#8221; or &#8220;networking&#8221; is almost like a\u00a04-letter word. It sounds so fake and manufactured; like you&#8217;re &#8220;using&#8221; people. But when framed as &#8220;community building&#8221;, that is a concept I can get behind. It&#8217;s not so scary. I can definitely do that.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t get mad. Get what you want. (Create an action plan.)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #003745;\"><strong>Presentation 2: A story about diversity, by YZ Chin<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Her advice was about diversity and the importance of being yourself. There were two main take-aways:<\/p>\n<p><strong>One:<\/strong> <strong>Diversity is important because<\/strong> <em><span style=\"color: #084e61;\"><strong>if everyone is the same, it means they can all fail the same way<\/strong>.<\/span><\/em> She went on to give an example about how, as a new member of the engineering team, she solved a critical error that all the other experienced team members failed to recognize. Her value to the team was her knowledge about their customers, not her skill as a software engineer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Two: It&#8217;s important to be honest.<\/strong> In her example, she recognized that <span style=\"color: #084e61;\"><em><strong>you&#8217;re not an impostor if you say you&#8217;re 2nd best<\/strong>.<\/em><\/span> She again related a story where her manage told her that he didn&#8217;t hire her to be the best engineer. He hired her for her customer expertise.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #003745;\"><strong>Presentation 3: What she did well \/ What she wishes she done better, by Natasha Awasthi\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>In Natasha&#8217;s second talk, she presented a list of career aphorisms based on what she had done well vs things she wishes she could have done better. I think the first list mostly speaks for itself. But I&#8217;ll explain the second a little more, because I think it&#8217;s interesting and helpful.<\/p>\n<h5>What she wishes she had done better<\/h5>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Show don&#8217;t tell.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Seek to clarify before you criticize.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Find a kernel of truth.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Ask for help.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Have a board of people as advisors (not friends or family):<\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>This is a group of professional contacts, that will give you difficult but critical feedback on your ideas, projects, career, etc. I thought this tied in really well with the point from her earlier presentation, about <strong>building community<\/strong>. People like this would be a great addition.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Working together means going slower.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h5>What she\u00a0did well<\/h5>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Act on little knowledge\u00a0&amp; lot of imagination.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Ask for help, twice:<\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>What she means is, instead of getting angry and assume people have simply ignored your request for help, just ask again.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Declare your\u00a0ignorance:<\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>This is sort of like getting lost. Sometimes you just continue on the same path, thinking you&#8217;re going the right way and then realize you&#8217;re way off path. It would be better to just admit you&#8217;re lost and find out where you are and where you need to go, than to just start walking. Same here: rather than pretend you know the answer, admit you don&#8217;t and find someone who can help.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Make it easy to have hard conversations:<\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>I&#8217;m actually quite bad at this, probably because of my desire to separate my professional and personal life. In her example, if you never talk to a colleague about anything, good or bad, that one time you&#8217;ve got to have a conversation it&#8217;s clearly probably about something terrible. So, take the\u00a0time to get to know your colleague on a more personal basis and build up a congenial rapport.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Focus on what you want.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Follow your obsessions:<\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>She mentioned that she was a writer, who wrote articles for Fast Company. She said she also taught classes at General Assembly.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #003745;\"><strong>Presentation 3: How to Tell Your Story \/ Personal Brand, by General Assembly<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This talk was given by two people from General Assembly. I think their job was to help students find jobs, or help them find\u00a0support. (Another example of working in tech, but not being technical.)<\/p>\n<p>At first, I was really annoyed when this talk started. I thought it would be about building a personal brand, which is an area where I felt I could use help. Instead the dual presenters gave somewhat detailed stories about their backgrounds, which I was kind of annoyed by.\u00a0However, they helped make it useful by talking about how to use your story to convey to employers how you can help them.<\/p>\n<p>The Q&amp;A and Summary section really clarified a few points from them, about what employers are looking for when it comes to the non-technical qualities of an employment candidate:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Employers want to know you have leadership qualities<\/strong><\/span>, which they described as seeking personal growth. I personally am not sure what leadership means to me, but I do know that I am growth-minded in that I am always looking to learn and expand my skillset. I want to know what I don&#8217;t know.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Employers want to know that you take criticism well.<\/strong> <\/span>I suppose I always knew this, but it&#8217;s good to hear it spelled out like this. For me, trying to apply the improv &#8220;Yes, and&#8230;&#8221; technique might be a good way to accept criticism when I don&#8217;t want to accept it. &#8220;Yes, I see your critique&#8230;and X-Y-Z.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Coming up with a story can be hard.<\/strong><\/span> So they suggested asking friends or acquaintances, maybe that board of advisors, to send 3 characteristics that they would use to describe you. And using that list\u00a0to help guide your story.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>In addition, in combination with YZ Chin&#8217;s story above, I came away with the idea that I should think of my story into tech as unique to me &#8211; and I shouldn&#8217;t feel ashamed or embarrassed to talk about how I didn&#8217;t go to design school or study engineering. I&#8217;m not being an impostor by admitting that my path into the tech industry was a straight line. Some employers might find that meandering experience valuable.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #003745;\"><strong>Final Talk of the Day<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>My last talk of the day, I actually cannot remember what it was called. But it was about finding peace at work and learning to cope with difficult situations.<\/p>\n<p>In this story, the presenter talked about how she created her own job, at her current company, after running into resistance and unhappiness in her previous role.<\/p>\n<h5>A quote:<\/h5>\n<blockquote><p>If you think it, you will say it. If you say it, you will do it.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>They attributed that to Confucius but many people have said something similar.<\/p>\n<h5>A few more:<\/h5>\n<ul>\n<li>Move towards vs move away<\/li>\n<li>Bearing down. (Sometimes you just have to work through difficult times, rather than run away.)<\/li>\n<li>Crowd source advice from toughest critics. (Sound familiar? This theme is common, I guess.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Speakers and Notes\u00a0from \u201cAdvancing The Careers of Technical Women (ACT-W)\u201d New York 2017 Conference Following up from my previous post about the very inspiring ACT-W NY conference\u00a0with a write-up of my notes. Unfortunately, I could not\u00a0attend all of the presentations, but they were all interesting an inspiring. 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